I know what some of you are thinking. It’s the new year around the corner and you might be thinking I am referring to the bar where they serve drinks other than coffee and tea.

No, not that!

I am referring to the artificial hurdle that we place on ourselves for things that matter most. Think about these bars and make appropriate changes (reset) to make the most of 2009.

What is your bar to get excited?

What is your bar to get very excited?

What is your bar to be happy?

What is your bar to be very happy?

What is your bar to trust someone?

What is your bar to someone to trust someone unconditionally?

What is your bar to get motivated?

What is your bar to get highly motivated?

What is your bar to get disciplined?

What is your bar to get highly disciplined?

What is your bar to love someone?

What is your bar to love someone unconditionally?

What is your bar to be grateful to someone?

What is your bar to be very grateful to someone?

What is your bar to give something valuable to the world?

What is your bar to give something valuable to the world now?

What is your bar to make a difference?

What is your bar to make a difference now?

Remember, there are no right or wrong answers. Depending on where these bars are set things may be working or NOT working for you. You could change that. Start by resetting these bars to where they should be in the new year.