I am sure you have a lot of close friends. The question is how many of these folks are in your “100% Trust Network.”
A person is in your “100% Trust Network” if you trust him come what
may. It is not a simple “trust” that you extend where it really means
“I trust you 100% as long as you don’t screw up.” In other words, it is sort of an
Of course, it goes without saying that you need to be extremely careful
in choosing who to put in the “100% Trust Network.” Once you put
someone there, let them know that they are in your “100% Trust Network”
and what it means. What happens next is simply amazing. This friend now
knows that if he inadvertantly makes a mistake or slips up, he does not
have to bend backwards to get back into your good books. It’s a sort of
a freedom that will get him closer to you.
Sometimes we all err and if it takes a long time to mend a small error, it drains us.
As always I have to say that always be trustworthy so that lots of people will put you in their “100% Trust Network.”